Say That

Episode 241

What is the difference between "locker room talk" and just being rude? (16:18-34:38)

How can Jesus empathize with our weakness if He is perfect? (34:42-51:04)

My youth pastor calls people out and it makes me uncomfortable. How do I bring this up without making a mess of it? (51:08-1:09:20)

Closing Song: Under His Wings (Haley Conner and Zach Hughes)

Episode 240

How do you move on from your first love? (16:19-26:33)

What does the Bible mean when it talks about being "the bride of Christ"? (26:30-41:51)

I just found out someone close to me was sexually assaulted. How can I be a good support for them? (41:57-1:05:10)

Closing Song: Your Thoughts Are Not My Thoughts (Jed Brewer)

Episode 239

Why is there such a taboo about sex that there isn't around other physiological functions? (17:40-32:36)

Can it be a problem for people to be open about their sin in a way that is almost boastful? (32:41-52:03)

Being depressed has made it hard to connect with what I read in the Bible. What do I do? (53:07-1:08:42)

Closing Song: Come Ye Disconsolate (Eric Peters) 

Episode 238

I feel like I messed up a witnessing opportunity with a family member. What do I do from here? (15:56-28:13)

My community group is going through some material I find problematic. How do I bring that up? (28:18-46:27)

"Locker room talk" is in the news. Do guys really talk like that? (46:34-1:09:24)

Closing Song: One Step (Lee Younger)

Episode 237

What are some tips for sharing my testimony with people from a very different background (ie, prisoners)? (16:50-31:38)

Is it selfish to pray to be a better person? (31:44-46:09)

How do my partner and I approach insecurities around money in our relationship? (48:14-1:04:12)

Closing Song: Matthew 28:20 (Poolhouse Guru)

Episode 236

How do I react to friends who are reading Christian books that I know are bad theology? (15:04-33:28)

I have a family member who goes on about how immigrants and refugees are dangerous. Are they right, and how should I respond to this? (33:33-52:43)

What is the right point in a relationship to drop the "I love you"? (53:48-1:12:50)

Closing Song: Follow You (Clark Vicary)

Episode 235

I can either go to a church with really good preaching, but no one who is my age; or lots of people my age, but teaching I don't like as much. What should I do? (18:06-34:50)

What is the right way to interact with and/or help the homeless people I come across in my city? (34:54-52:02)

How do you keep a sustainable role in a marriage when your partner is putting so much of their energy towards treatment for mental health issues? (53:07-1:12:57)

Closing Song: Bigger Than My Fears (Haley Conner)

Episode 234

How do you know when you're ready to get married? (16:42-29:15)

Why do I feel so bad when I compare my life to my friends? (29:19-42:58)

How do you love someone who doesn't treat you with love? (43:13-59:58)

Closing Song: Standing On The Promises (As Yet Unnamed Superfan Band)

Episode 233 (with Zach Bolen)

I drew a boundary with a family member and they reacted badly, did I still do the right thing? (17:51-35:17)

Interview with Zach Bolen, of Citizens and Saints, about their new record "A Mirror Dimly" and lessons from the demise of a megachurch. (36:28-54:46)

Transition song clip: Relent (Citizens and Saints)

After setting a healthy boundary with a relative, I feel some guilt about it not working out. How do I move on? (55:19-1:13:43)

Closing Song: Greater Is He (Jed Brewer)

Episode 232

I know that God is bigger than my problems, but how do I stop myself from still getting swept up in cares of this world? (13:07-28:17)

My pastor preached about "claiming victory." What does that actually mean? (28:20-47:56)

I don't know how to actually enjoy life with God. Where do I start? (48:00-1:02:22)

Closing Song: Come Home To Him (Poolhouse Guru ft Pastor Donald Douglas)