Where your big questions get real answers
Episodes
Jun 16, 2021
Jun 16, 2021
1hr 1 min
I used to talk to God like He was my friend or therapist, then I got freaked out that I was being inappropriate. How should I approach Him? (12:02-26:15)
Matt talks to Sarah Eekhoff Zylstra, Senior writer at The Gospel Coalition and coauthor of Gospelbound about the stories in her new book, where the American church goes from here, and dealing with deconstruction. (28:22-42:48)
The Bible says Jesus went through all the things we go through. Does that mean He was ever unsure about His purpose? (43:09-57:38)
Closing Song: 1 John 4:19 (The Poolhouse Guru)
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Jun 9, 2021
Jun 9, 2021
1hr 4 min
My mom has been repeating horrible, offensive things she hears on her preferred news channel and I am struggling to deal with it. What should I do? (12:38- 30:41)
Someone told me I have a fear of success. What does that mean and what would I do about it? (30:47-45:58)
Philippians 1:27 says to "conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ." So, how do I do that? (46:03-59:42)
Closing Song: Oh The Deep Deep Love of Jesus (Lee Younger)
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Jun 2, 2021
Jun 2, 2021
1hr 3 min
What does spiritual growth actually mean? How do I know if I am growing? (10:04-24:43)
Matt talks to Ben Kirby of instagram sensation PreachersNSneakers about his new book looking at Christian celebrity pastor culture. (25:25-44:11)
I met someone I like, but we have very religious beliefs. Should I end things before we get too attached? (44:37-59:59)
Closing Song: Always, Always, Always (Jed Brewer)
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May 26, 2021
May 26, 2021
1hr 8 min
I struggle with grief and loss. What is the healthy way to grieve? (14:08-29:43)
There are a lot of rules in my life. How do I deal with my impatience for a time when I can really get to live my life? (29:47-44:25)
I have been reading about gnostic gospels and how the people who chose the biblical canon intentionally reduced women's voices. That resonated with my experiences of misogyny in church. Is there anything to it? (44:30-1:05:12)
Closing Song: Everlasting (Deacons Division)
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May 19, 2021
May 19, 2021
1hr 3 min
I have a relative who needs help but clearly doesn't want it from me. How can I help? (13:11-29:30)
I left the faith I grew up in and have encountered some ideas and experiences that freak me out since. I don't know what to think. (29:36-46:21)
I made changes and life got better. But now I need to make another set of changes and I am worried that will unsettle my life. How do I know which changes are good? (46:24-1:00:28)
Closing Song: Jesus Loves Me (The Bridge Loud ft Harley Smalley)
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May 13, 2021
May 13, 2021
44 min
Our full chat with Vicar Derek Kubilus of the Cross Over Q Podcast.
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May 12, 2021
May 12, 2021
1hr 8 min
I have been alone most of my life and have started getting to know people. But when they don't have time for me, I feel like acting out or spouting negativity. What should I do? (18:12-32:16)
Matt talks with Vicar Derek Kubilus from the Cross Over Q podcast about QAnon, its effects on christian communities, and how Christians and church leaders can help people caught up in it. (33:23-48:00)
I have big dreams and thinking about them brings me joy, but I am worried that they might be bad for me or ungodly. How do I know what's going on? (48:57-1:03:44)
Closing Song: Come Ye Disconsolate (Eric Peters)
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May 5, 2021
May 5, 2021
1hr 11 min
*Note* We have a few audio hiccups in the intro. Everything is back to normal about 2 minutes in.
I recently heard someone say the church should reject Critical Race Theory because it is "divisive". What do you guys think? (17:23-33:34)
In 1 Peter 5, it talks about suffering. But Christians seem to glorify and wallow in suffering. How should we see suffering? (33:38-50:04)
We discuss the article- Four Defining Moments for Young Marriages (50:13-1:07:13)
Closing Song: Just As I Am (The Bridge Loud)
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Apr 28, 2021
Apr 28, 2021
1hr 7 min
I am having impure thoughts overtime. I do good, but I feel like I am condemning myself. (12:43-30:12)
You guys talk about not owing anyone an argument. Is there a caveat in there for calling people out for acting like jerks? (30:20-49:22)
When someone turns down my help or advice I feel worthless. How do I process that? (49:27-1:03:56)
Closing Song: Micah 6:8 (The Poolhouse Guru)
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Apr 21, 2021
Apr 21, 2021
1hr 7 min
I had a tough conversation with someone. It went pretty well, but I don't think it ends with us being like best friends. It feels weird. Is that okay? (15:58-30:34)
I am struggling with loneliness. How can I deal with this? (30:42-45:37)
I have a problem with anger. I don't realize I am angry until it's too far along. What can I do? (45:47-1:04:52)
Closing Song: It Is Well (Pete and Tasha Lawson)
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